mine is during highschool & yes I still hold a grudge against my twin sis's friends.  2 - 3 .  they took me for a ride & took me for granted, I did not have a car, we did not get along at all, now the 2 outta 3 is really bad off.  don't wanna explain. all I have to say is I had a strange dream & woke up at 9:37 a.m. and I wanted so to get at them, the 2, they always sneered at me, made fun of me.  have nooo idea why I put up with my twin sis's friends, but they put up for the gas money. my twin sis married durin that time.

just wonderin if any of ya felt , not hate but, dislike in people like that. I still can't shake the feeling off for years. since my sis was very ill back in November, I still can't. just so many things that went on back then.

I have two big assholes that changed and made a negative impact on my life. I'll give you the short version.

The first one is my My maternal grandmother. My mother was 16 when I was born in 1964 when the term bastard child was like a scarlet letter. My grandmother was having an affair with another man and wanted to keep him from leaving her. During my mothers pregnancy, My grandmother faked a pregnancy and told her boyfried that I was his son. Until the age of four I thaught that my real mother was my sister.  I finally was told the truth when i was very young and finally lived with my real mother. My Grandmother eventually divorce my grandfather and married her boyfriend. I have hated that bitch every day of my life.

The other one was my step dad. Pure evil. Thank god he's dead.

WOW! all I can say is WOW, you've been through tough times  The Staring Man, wanna give ya a  BIG HUGE *HUG* Woah!

Thank you

I'm sure ppl ((people)) know what i'm talking about!!

     
“Half a truth is often a great lie.”

Ben Franklin

Susan,

      Wow, I've never heard this story before, Thanks. Scarily similar, except I never met my father. Yes, that's another long Jerry Springer saga I'll save for another time.  I would love to chit chat with Jack and get his feelings on this topic. I still have a lot of bitterness and anger toward those involved. I feel my entire existance is a lie and that I was used as a pawn in a sick and twisted game. Jack was eventually told the truth as a grown man, I was five or six years old when I learned the truth.  How could any parent or grandparent lie to their own flesh and blood like this?

Can you imagine what kind of book a good shrink could write on this. Maybe I could tell the whole story to Josh as an idea for a script. Now that could be catharsic and financially pleasing at the same time. Hmmm.

Seriously, Thanks for the story, It does help to know there are others.

Rob

I think dislike is a negative fear-based emotion and therefore I don't concentrate on it.  Like and love are more worthwhile. 

"watch out for my cousin.."

 I think Maddy is right. If I'm honest, the reason I didn't like certain people was out of jealousy or misunderstanding. The thing about them I disliked was more often than not something of which I too was guilty.

Probably a good sign, but I had to think for a while to come up with anyone.

Kitty Kat ( Hi Kitty ya stranger.) mentioned work. So yeah I am reporting my results to a guy at work who really is a drag. I don't like him. Two weeks from now I'll be gone and probably won't even remember the sullen, humorless ahole after I cash the last check.