Yeah, most fans just want that exclusivity so it creates some popularity and awe directed towards them. It's fucking sad if you ask me. If that's all a person has going for them...yeesh. How very Hollywood.
There are a rare few fans who don't openly share the goods though because the DVD of footage was created from stolen materials, and the threat has been put out there for those peoples' lives to be made miserable if they dare to share it with the rest of the fan base. Best bet is to figure out who does have the DVD and send them private messages or e-mails asking for a copy. Or as Nefud suggested, have a burn party. We're at a point now that as long as someone isn't charging for copies of that DVD, there isn't much further harm to come from the trading of it amongst fans. Because we've seen that as a community we're more than happy to pay for official releases of things even if we already have bootlegs (as evidenced by the popularity of the 2nd season soundtrack), so if this stuff does ever get an official release, the money will flow in accordingly.
I think the singular beef with the footage is just that it was stolen from someone and then sold for a very exorbitant price ($130 a pop) on eBay, which is beyond not right. But that's between the thief and the original owner to sort out. The fans need to be left out of it in terms of the ongoing battle.
~ Amanda
"Just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave..."
