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1. Saturday, March 10, 2007 5:23 PM
JVSCant FIFA vs. Hijab (or: should kids be allowed in organized religion?)


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So we've got this story that suddenly became international. An 11-year-old girl was ejected from a soccer game for wearing her hijab. She'd been playing for quite a while, but perhaps this is the first time she played in front of this particular official, I don't know. Anyway, it caused a big kerfuffle, and FIFA agreed to discuss it at their meeting, and apparently that didn't amount to much. A little synopsis is here .

Anyway, I have a solution, and I'm sure everyone here will agree that it's genius.

Basically, I think western societies should make it illegal for people under the age of 18 to be involved in organized religion. Make it an adults-only activity, like voting or pornography. Of course, we can't control what people do to their children in the privacy of their own homes (except in the obvious cases where verifiable abuse is taking place). But really, my brilliant plan solves so many problems.

Using kids as pawns in ideological battles, by taking photos of them looking sad while wearing a hijab and holding a soccer ball? Solved.

Tempting priests into carrying on special training sessions with the choirboys? Solved.

Jesus Camps? Kirpans in school? In-class prayer? Solved, solved, solved.

In fact, I can't see how my plan would cause any problems at all.



 
2. Sunday, March 4, 2007 10:01 AM
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 Sounds fine in theory. But like denying kids anything, it'll make them just  want it more. You'll have Jew kids hiding yarmulkes under their baseball caps,  Muslim skaters falling "accidentally" off of their boards in the direction of Mecca, Catholic boys surreptitiously meeting priests wherever (Christian Science reading rooms perhaps?),  religious tracts perused by flashlights under bedcovers,  Hail Marys recited silently  while masturbating,  prayers/hymns indulged in behind the barn (or wherever)... virgins "accidentally" tumbling into volcanoes... you get the idea.  But I'm willing to try it!!

 
3. Sunday, March 4, 2007 12:07 PM
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Hey, nothin' wrong with personal enthusiasms.  


 
4. Sunday, March 4, 2007 2:35 PM
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QUOTE: Sounds fine in theory. But like denying kids anything, it'll make them just want it more. You'll have Jew kids hiding yarmulkes under their baseball caps, Muslim skaters falling "accidentally" off of their boards in the direction of Mecca, Catholic boys surreptitiously meeting priests wherever (Christian Science reading rooms perhaps?), religious tracts perused by flashlights under bedcovers, Hail Marys recited silently while masturbating, prayers/hymns indulged in behind the barn (or wherever)... virgins "accidentally" tumbling into volcanoes... you get the idea. But I'm willing to try it!!
You can take these rosary beads and shove 'em up your... rectory.

 
5. Sunday, March 4, 2007 3:24 PM
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QUOTE: Sounds fine in theory. But like denying kids anything, it'll make them just want it more. You'll have Jew kids hiding yarmulkes under their baseball caps, Muslim skaters falling "accidentally" off of their boards in the direction of Mecca, Catholic boys surreptitiously meeting priests wherever (Christian Science reading rooms perhaps?), religious tracts perused by flashlights under bedcovers, Hail Marys recited silently while masturbating, prayers/hymns indulged in behind the barn (or wherever)... virgins "accidentally" tumbling into volcanoes... you get the idea. But I'm willing to try it!!
You can take these rosary beads and shove 'em up your... rectory.
Hey, these beads smell like holy sh#%!
 

 
6. Sunday, March 4, 2007 3:45 PM
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QUOTE:You can take these rosary beads and shove 'em up your... rectory.
Hey, these beads smell like holy sh#%!
Enough with these religion based jokey puns. It's feels like we're beatifying a dead horse.

 
7. Monday, March 5, 2007 3:00 PM
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QUOTE:You can take these rosary beads and shove 'em up your... rectory.
Hey, these beads smell like holy sh#%!
Enough with these religion based jokey puns. It's feels like we're beatifying a dead horse.

   Yes! Now we need to say 666 Heil Marys!! I mean, HAIL!! Crap, we're both going to heil. Oh, never mind... (I'll be over in the corner beating this equine corpse if you need me)

 
8. Tuesday, March 6, 2007 1:00 AM
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How about no wearing of religious symbols or garb in public institutions with the exception of those who's employment is in such garb.

No crosses, no skull caps, no hijabs, no orange sacks - make it universal.  That's an easy solution.

The problem with the first idea is that many kids are smart enough to figure out for themselves that there must be a God, and some are spiritually intelligent enough to get in touch with God.  Prohibition would be a waste of time in this situation.

 
9. Tuesday, March 6, 2007 11:37 PM
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The point isn't to prevent young people from being interested in religion, or to prohibit them from studying religion independently of established organizations. The point is to protect young people from being industrially indoctrinated before they have the capacity to reason for themselves fully.

Obviously "fully" is an inadequate word, as some people are very intelligent and self-directed by their early teens, while other people are extremely slow developers in these ways. But we set an arbitrary line to mark "adulthood" for other purposes, like driving permits, employment, purchasing cigarettes, or holding public office, so a similar approach for organized religion participation would have many potential precedents.

Even if we lower the bar to 16 -- which seems like a better age than 18 to me, now that I consider it -- it transforms the supplicant's eventual involvement in whatever church they affiliate with. "Going to church" changes from a habit ingrained by early imprinting and powerlessness to refuse to attend, into a consciously chosen decision (leaving aside, for the sake of argument, the force of social and familial expectations).

There will still be fanatic soldiers of every stripe, of course; even atheism has fanatics. This just moves kids a little further away from the center of the field of battle, and maybe gives the most at-risk kids a half a chance to see that there's such a thing as life outside of that fight as well.

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As far as the costume thing goes, I've found that what you outline is generally suggested by the groups that have the least to lose from it: atheists and Christians. You have to admit, it's not really fair.

I don't care what my doctor or the cop that pulls me over or the librarian is wearing (as long as I can see their face -- I will admit that adherence to Western custom). I would, however, support a prohibition against the display or wearing of religious symbols (and objects and so forth) in all schools up until university/college level -- meaning both in the decor of the school and in the attire of students, teachers, and other staff.


 
10. Tuesday, March 6, 2007 11:37 PM
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You start with the supposition that somehow religion is evil and a dangerous influence, so your conclusions from that point are bound to be flawed.

Parents teach kids how to live their lives as best they know how.  They teach them about values, morals, ethics, safety, and generally how to get around in the world.  Now whether these lessons of life come from a Bible, or from the imagination of an atheist mind...they remain lessons the child will learn based upon the parent's understanding.

A parent who is spiritually aware will likely also pass on their knowledge in that area.  A parent who is not spiritually aware obviously can't.

If one parent can teach their child that they don't believe in God or any religion, and that in fact view themselves as the supreme entity in the universe...why can't another parent teach their child about God?  Seems fair to me...

The good thing about Christianity is that ultimately the decision is the individual's to make.  Any person forced or coerced into expressions of faith or beliefs they don't personally share isn't achieving much.  It must be a personal, conscious, free-will choice to be of any good.

I guess where I partly agree with you in where kids are completely isolated from society due to their religion and therefore never get the chance to develop the real world experiences, awareness and intelligence to make their own informed choices.  I often pass an Islamic school bus on the way to work.  The kids are raised in muslim homes, get on the islamic bus, go to the islamic school, associate only with islamic kids and adults, and then return the same way.  They have no chance at integrating with the wider society, or even questioning what they're being taught from a more informed pov.  In this sort of case there would be merit in somehow forcing the kids to spend some time in wider society...

 

 
11. Tuesday, March 6, 2007 11:57 PM
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You start with the supposition that somehow religion is evil and a dangerous influence, so your conclusions from that point are bound to be flawed.

I'd be interested to have you point out where I supposed that.

I personally believe that religion is a valid management system for any individual's pursuit of spiritual insight, interpretation of subjective God-feelings, need to formally codify ethical principles, and some other things I can't think of right now. I don't think religion is necessary at all for a person interested in these aims, but established systems are less work than fully researching one's own, and can have enriching social benefits as well. From the time I was young until today, some of my favorite people that I know happen to be quite serious and committed to their involvement in one of the Big Four religions.

That being said, piousness is a good cloak for the wicked and twisted, and we've seen enough examples of the abuse of power in religious institutions of every flavor that I won't rehash them now. Religion is as good as the people in it.

Further on that idea, if religious institutions only admitted people when they had reached the age of majority, it would certainly make those institutions smaller -- but it would also make them stronger. Built with a better ratio of willing warriors to reluctant ones, and less prone to abuse as a convenient flag of redemption by every politician and celebrity with a bad story in the press that month.

Better for people, better for religions.

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Other than the part I quoted, I agreed with the rest of your post. 



 
12. Wednesday, March 7, 2007 8:20 AM
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If one parent can teach their child that they don't believe in God or any religion, and that in fact view themselves as the supreme entity in the universe...why can't another parent teach their child about God? Seems fair to me...


Sounds like you've got solipsism and atheism confused.

 
13. Friday, March 9, 2007 12:48 PM
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The only problem is that Jesus is a person and not a religion.  He can be involved with whoever He wants at any age.  I know of an 11 year old girl, I think she is older now, and her parents did not even believe in God.  Jesus would come into her room and she had all of these encounters with Him and she would draw pictures of it through her art work.  She now teaches about The Kingdom Of God.  Oh, Yeah and the Kingdom Of God isn't a religion either.

 
14. Friday, March 9, 2007 11:34 PM
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Again, not sure what that has to do prohibiting religious organizations from recruiting/allowing children.  I'm not convinced it's possible, on our plane, to legislate against Jesus coming into people's rooms, so that doesn't really enter into it in my opinion.


 
15. Saturday, March 10, 2007 8:49 AM
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QUOTE:Again, not sure what that has to do prohibiting religious organizations from recruiting/allowing children. I'm not convinced it's possible, on our plane, to legislate against Jesus coming into people's rooms, so that doesn't really enter into it in my opinion.

I can't get the thought of Pennywise the evangelist out of my head now.

 
16. Saturday, March 10, 2007 11:05 AM
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QUOTE:The only problem is that Jesus is a person and not a religion.  He can be involved with whoever He wants at any age.  I know of an 11 year old girl, I think she is older now, and her parents did not even believe in God.  Jesus would come into her room and she had all of these encounters with Him and she would draw pictures of it through her art work.  She now teaches about The Kingdom Of God.  Oh, Yeah and the Kingdom Of God isn't a religion either.

 Well, maybe Jesus WAS a person. Records would indicate that he ceased to occupy a physical body over 2000 years  ago.  And I'm sure your recounting of this girl's relationship with him was meant ever so innocently, but I was a little creeped out by the image of a "person" named Jesus who "would come into her room, &  she had all of these encounters with him".   As to whether she's "older now", I would think so, as the clock keeps ticking on all of us, even those who have magical encounters.   It seems that this is hearsay. Do you know this girl's name & if her pictures would be available for public viewing? And who would allow an 11 year-old to teach? (oh yeah, she's apparently older)  And why would the girl not even call her atheist parents into her room during encounter time?  Hmmm, this opens up all kinds of questions...

 
17. Saturday, March 10, 2007 10:31 AM
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Well, maybe Jesus WAS a person. Records would indicate that he ceased to occupy a physical body over 2 centuries ago.


Sooooo, that would have been around the early 1800s, huh?

Susan 


     
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18. Saturday, March 10, 2007 11:04 AM
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Well, maybe Jesus WAS a person. Records would indicate that he ceased to occupy a physical body over 2 centuries ago.


Sooooo, that would have been around the early 1800s, huh?

Susan 


  Exactly, my fair Sue!! Umm, ya caught Me!! Is it too late to edit my post?

 
19. Saturday, March 10, 2007 11:07 AM
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Well, maybe Jesus WAS a person. Records would indicate that he ceased to occupy a physical body over 2 centuries ago.


Sooooo, that would have been around the early 1800s, huh?

Susan 


  Exactly, my fair Sue!! Umm, ya caught Me!! Is it too late to edit my post?
Voila!! Just like the person Jesus healed the lame, my lame mistake is magically  righted!!!
 

 
20. Saturday, March 10, 2007 11:22 AM
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Well, maybe Jesus WAS a person. Records would indicate that he ceased to occupy a physical body over 2 centuries ago.


Sooooo, that would have been around the early 1800s, huh?

Susan


Exactly, my fair Sue!! Umm, ya caught Me!! Is it too late to edit my post?
Voila!! Just like the person Jesus healed the lame, my lame mistake is magically righted!!!

Ah, you're very welcome, Chris.  I know you'd do the same for me.

 

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21. Saturday, March 10, 2007 11:42 AM
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Well, maybe Jesus WAS a person. Records would indicate that he ceased to occupy a physical body over 2 centuries ago.


Sooooo, that would have been around the early 1800s, huh?

Susan


Exactly, my fair Sue!! Umm, ya caught Me!! Is it too late to edit my post?
Voila!! Just like the person Jesus healed the lame, my lame mistake is magically righted!!!

Ah, you're very welcome, Chris.  I know you'd do the same for me.

 

Susan 

  No comment on the actual post, huh? Just the chronological correction... I'm doing good. I mean, WELL.
 

 
22. Saturday, March 10, 2007 12:48 PM
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I thought I'd let the anti-religionists fight it out amongst themselves, Chris. My thoughts on such multi-culti issues have been oft-expressed.

But since you asked, here is the raw feed I began before deciding to take a pass on this subject. Feel free to demean them if you like.  But I think I've heard the responses as frequently as I've heard my own views on this subject.  


Hmmm, interesting story, Jamie. One of many where children proclaim their rights to dress as they choose. Hire lawyers. Bring in the ACLU or whatever human rights group that happens to care so deeply about such issues. It could be a hijab. Or it could be a Sikh wearing his sword to school and having trouble with the metal detectors. It could be the kid in the F**K Bush t-shirt. The girl with her tube top and exposed torso with the pierced navel.

Why didn't this happen in the past? Well, there was a commonality of belief that schools had dress codes. Parents didn't object. If students came to school in (YIKES!) a rolled up skirt whose hem didn't reach the floor when in a kneeling position, she was sent home. No ifs, ands or buts. Student got in trouble from school and parents.

Rights. HUMAN rights. RELIGIOUS rights. The INDIVIDUAL. Forget any cohesiveness of the group or the particular institution -- be it a public school or a sports organization or the Boy Scouts. No, the individual rules. That is -- the CRANKY individual. It is that individual who gets to go on Larry King to bitch and moan about their rights being maligned.

Now to me, this is all the slow wheels of chickens driving home to roost. In the name of multi-culturalism and all that is wonderful about the mixture of peoples, ethnic backgrounds and the variety of cultural differences that can be beautifully brought to a society, the cohesiveness is eroded. If nothing is "better" than anything else, they anything goes. If nothing is to be strived for in terms of a societal norm or a societal agreed upon value because they're all really just of equal value, then expect that every deviation from that norm will eventually stake their claim to assert themselves.

Back in the era of the largest immigration movement in this country's history - the late 19th century -- newcomers from Europe were most eager to assimilate and for their children to be seen as Americans even if the parents were uneasy with the new language and foreign surroundings. Most immigrant parents forebade their young children to speak their native tongues. My grandmother was one of these, having been in utero during the family's migration from Denmark to the US. She never spoke a word of Danish. Within one generation, these immigrants had assimilated. Women from prominent families in New York did regular immersion programs with new immigrants taking groups to famous American landmarks and giving them pride in their new land. Ah, yes, it all sounds corny now. But it worked by and large.

But then the 1950s hit with the post-war beat movement, the non-conformist and the denigration of "keeping up with the Joneses." Soon it would be the 1960s with the "question authority" and "tune in, turn on, drop out" Thus the delicate balance is dislodged from one direction. In this case, the


     
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23. Saturday, March 10, 2007 1:10 PM
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 Records would indicate that he ceased to occupy a physical body over 2000 years  ago. 

 Still not good enough.  Those records point to the death and Ascension occuring in or near 2033, just under 2000 years ago.


-B
 
24. Saturday, March 10, 2007 1:38 PM
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Whoa, so Jesus was born in like year zero?
What were people like before that? Were they like sup dudes happy new year. what are we counting down to?
The birth of christ? lol ok. See you guys laterz ave atque vale.

 
25. Saturday, March 10, 2007 2:43 PM
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I forgot the little girl's name, but I do have a magazine around the house somewhere about her. As soon as I find it I will get you the link. I have not kept up with her much. Also, her parrents now believe in Jesus as well because of her encounters.

About your comments about Jesus. Did you know that Jesus was raised from the dead? All that stuff and information that people have is either to make money or to try to prove to themselves that Jesus isn't real or that Jesus is dead. It isn't for someone who has encountered Him and knows Him. You will never prove to us that He isn't real, because we know He is. Trying to prove that to us is like trying to say Kentucky isn't real. You are not going to prove that to someone who has been there.

Also, about the REALM thing. You really only have access to the first (earth) and second heaven. You have some cool encounters there, even healing miracles, etc... But if you are going there without first going through the blood of Jesus. Let me warn you, you could eventually have a fragmented personailty or even death. Not trying to scare you just warn you. Some of the things that come againest you in the second realm can't come againest you in the third or higher realms (heavens), but you only can access them through Jesus.

You can encounter the Kingdom though. It came come to you. It is always here. The Kingdom is always near surrounding us. If you are in tune you can feel it.

Also, if you are doing asta travel ( I think that is what you call it, I call it being translated) If you are doing that without being covered by Jesus. Let me warn you that you could easly die. You can die if you can't get back or if someone decides to cut your cord. Do you know what I am talking about? Anyway, be blessed.

 

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